SECOND TRY – MAKE PEACE (Day 5 of 7)
(Need to start at the beginning? Day 1)
OK, folks, let’s give it another day of pursuing peace.
Continually pursue peace with everyone … Hebrews 12:14a AMP
Look specifically at your marriage and ways you can create a safe, kind place to discuss differences or areas of tension.
It’s amazing how a small change in tone of voice can help people calm down. Asking questions or suggesting a period of brainstorming is also helpful. It lets folks know that their perspective is valued.
The other thing I thought of, was a test period. When you’re working through a tense issue with someone, solutions don’t have to be made in stone. Suggest trying a new solution for a few days or a week or two. Then examine and consider fine-tuning your solution or trying something else. Trial and error has its place.
The little ladybug rock was painted for me by my grandson (mom did the finishing touches).
I bought some Dollar Tree stackables for my herbs and, though they are a little small, they do the job. (My chives are blooming.)
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Image credits – calendar © gustavofrazao / Adobe Stock, ladybug & chives © Lori / Doing Marriage Well
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