This week has been a bit sad for me.
A couple we know is likely to divorce. Paul and I are not in a position to help them. Total bummer.
At the heart of the conflict, is a desire to fix the other and an unwillingness to see their part in the difficulties.
Y’all, please learn from this.
You can’t fix anyone else but yourself and truly when you grow and change you give your spouse a hand up in growing and changing too. They can see how good and sweet it is to be mature and loving.
If you need something from your spouse, try asking clearly and simply, and be willing to consider other options. Please don’t ask them to be someone they are not.
Prayers for all appreciated.
Paul power-washed my quail cages. We’re getting ready for winter. Gotta get cleaned up and tucked in before the cold weather hits.
I’ll be ordering some quail eggs shortly. (FYI, I order from these folks. I’m not an affiliate, they just raise their quail for good size and temperament.)
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Image credits – fighting couple © WavebreakMediaMicro / Adobe Stock, clean quail cages © Lori / Doing Marriage Well
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