This week, I want to talk about prayer.

Prayer should be a big thing in our marriages. That should include praying for God to help us be better spouses, praying for our spouse, and praying together.

A lot of men struggle to pray out loud. Prayer has always felt very private to me. Blessing a meal, sure, but I had to push myself to do it with my wife. If you’re like this, husband, push through it. If wife, your husband is like this, give him some grace.

Couple praying together at home.

I am convinced prayer changes things. What it most often changes is the one who is praying. I’m not discounting miracles here. Besides, changes to the one praying can be a miracle!

“God change my spouse” is a common prayer, and an understandable one. I think “God make my spouse the way you want him or her to be” is a better prayer.

~ This is Paul, telling you that Praying Well looks different for every couple.

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