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I’m going to talk about sexual problems all this week. Some of you think that’s great, and some of you are thinking of skipping the week. I’ve had folks complain I make everything about sex. In fact, I’m doing that much less with this blog than with my past blogs.
Still, sex is a part of marriage, and a healthy happy marriage requires a healthy, happy sex life. Sexual issues are a major factor in marriage dissatisfaction, and they play a part in many divorces. So it’s something we need to discuss if we want to Do Marriage Well.
Part of the difficulty is our society is weird about sex. We both exaggerate and downplay sex. We are obsessed, and fearful, often at the same time.
The church is even worse. It’s getting better, but we still have an unbiblical relationship with sex.

Because of this, Christians don’t always get help when sex isn’t working right. Lori and I have dealt with couples who suffered for years when a very simple change was all they needed. This always makes me sad, and I feel an obligation to do what I can to prevent others from similar struggles.
So this week we will talk about ED and PE. We will discuss desire issues and the inability to orgasm when you want to. We will talk about how age and menopause change sex, and how porn and erotica can derail sex.
If you don’t have any of these issues, great. I suggest you still read along so you have a head start if any of them crop up down the road.
~ This is Paul, and Doing Sex Well is not always as easy as we’d like.

Saturday was tree day at our place. In addition to four small dead trees, we took out three living ones that threatened homes. The one in this image that is about to hit the ground was looming over my house.

It’s hard work, but with three guys, two chain saws, and a tractor, it’s not too bad.
Image Credit: © Paul H Byerly created with ideogram.ai & Paul Byerly
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