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So tools and sex. Everything I discussed this week applies to sexuality. Even an older mentor can be helpful, if you find someone who is able to talk openly about sex while respecting the privacy of both marriages. And of course, coaching, or other professional help can be a huge help for those really struggling.
But today I want to talk about the sex tools usually called toys. I’ve never liked the word toys for these items. Sure, they can be fun, but they can also be vital tools that make sex better, or even make sex possible. Perhaps seeing them as tools will make it easier to accept them.
So let me mention a few items that can really help your sex life:
Egg Vibrator: These can be corded or remote control. He can use it on her for foreplay or to bring her to orgasm. She can also use it on him. The best use it to place it between your bodies during face to face intercourse. This can result in a woman who can’t orgasm during intercourse doing so.
Penis Ring: These trap blood in the penis. If a man tends to get a bit soft during intercourse, this can prevent that. It may also make a man harder.
Lubricant: For various reasons, some women are occasionally or usually too dry for sex to be comfortable. Lubes are also great for manual sex on either of you.
Penis Sleeve: These can be used by the wife to manually stimulate her husband, making it much easier on her arms and perhaps more enjoyable for him.
By the way, all links go to Married Dance, a great sex tool website that doesn’t have pornographic images or descriptions.
~ This is Paul, and sometimes Doing Sex Well requires having the right tool
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