We play many different parts and fall into many different roles, but we all have the same worth and value in Christ. And, as such, we are called to show a similar love for ourselves and others, especially our spouse.
It certainly is a challenge to love well and to be sacrificial at times isn’t it?
For me, a helpful exercise was watching the ebb and flow of our relationship. I wasn’t particularly looking for 50/50, but rather a healthy exchange of loving on and taking care of each other. Seasons come and go. How we love and serve each other changes here and there.
Mostly I just needed to see that I was aware of my sweetie and making room for those things that make his life even sweeter.