FIRST TRY (Day 3 of 7)
Today is about experimenting with being a safe place and being supportive and trustworthy.
The heart of her husband trusts in her [with secure confidence], and he will have no lack of gain. She comforts, encourages, and does him only good and not evil all the days of her life. Proverbs 31:11-12 AMP
For me, it helps to think of sections of my relationship. How do I relate to my spouse first thing in the morning? How do I handle finances? Am I there for him emotionally, sexually, or in support of his dreams?
I realize that’s a lot, so maybe just start with this morning. How can you make your spouse’s morning easier? Think through practical things, like is the laundry done, so they have clean clothes for the day or is there a place for the car keys?
Is your tone of voice calm and caring? Is a quickie (or more) possible? If your spouse has a hard day ahead, can you reach out with a hug and a prayer?
What does being that safe caring place look like for you?