Hi, I’m Lori. My husband, Paul, and I have been talking and writing to married couples since the late 90’s (yes, I have grey hair).


We started a website and a discussion forum. Then we started a blog and another and another.*

Now I’m on a crusade to help couples take actionable steps to make their marriages better so they can enjoy marriage for a lifetime.

When I’m not writing, you can usually find me out and about on our land (we live with extended family on 10 acres in the beautiful Northwest). I enjoy raising assorted animals, gardening, and hanging with family.


*The Marriage Bed website
The Marriage Bed discussion forum
The Generous Wife (now sitting in mothballs)
The Generous Husband (Paul’s still writing)
The XY Code (and writing)
His new blog TBA (and writing some more)


Let's Do This!