As you go through your day, look for opportunities to listen to your spouse and give room for both you and your spouse (love your spouse as you love yourself). Look for ways to create a healthy balance. You are both important and there is room for you both.
Watch your speech and ask yourself if you are making room for your sweetie in conversation. If they mention an idea do you shut them down or listen with curiosity? Can you bend to their preference? Can you spend time doing something they want to do?