So how did it go? Did you find it easy to make room for your spouse? Did you find ways to love on and benefit your spouse? Were you able to show them they have worth and value in your eyes?
What was easy? What was more difficult?
I have sort of a backwards problem.
My husband has many clear preferences. I really have very few. He’s a mover and a shaker and I’m more laid back. What that means practically is he gets “his way” much of the time. I don’t have to work hard to make room for him, rather I have to make a point of speaking up for myself if there is something I would like or if something is quite important to me.
I still gave this subject some thought though because it’s easy to overlook those things your spouse doesn’t mention often (or perhaps they hint at because they feel it’s a bit risky to share).